Finding Your Frenchness
My Powder Room, Photo by Shelley Metcalf
I am not sure Frenchness is a word, it was a thought that came to my mind. When I looked it up, it came up as a noun, and means the quality or characteristic of being French, according to Wiktionary. I define Frenchness as ”Joie de Vivre,” a zest for life, an underlying philosophy of quality simplistic everyday living with gratitude and lifestyle rising to elegance. The French are masters at this, and naturally live this philosophy so well, yet everyone can have Frenchness with this philosophy, cultivating their thoughts and lifestyle, where ever they live.
Here I share with you 25 easy ways to create Frenchness in your everyday life.
Beauty
1) Find that perfect lipstick shade that looks great on you, makes you smile, and gives you confidence. Try one a little bolder than what you normally wear. Perhaps a romantic pink or a Chanel red that compliments your skin tone.
2) A signature scent lends itself to an air of mystery. Try a French perfume for fun, if you don’t wear one now. I tend to wear French floral scents, but the classic muskish Chanel No. 5 is still one of the most popular perfumes ever created.
3) Explore some of the great French beauty skin care products, such as Caudalíe for their serum, and La Roche-Posay for their Face 50 Ultra Light Sunscreen Fluid (available at CVS). Read up on French beauty secrets, one of them being Ageless Beauty the French Way.
“ A Girl Should Be Two Things: Classy and Fabulous.” —Coco Chanel Paris Ritz
Style
4) Finish your outfit ensemble to complete your look. Use a scarf, broach, or that certain purse that ties it all together. Cloche hats are always flattering, especially for a special event. For gents wear a fedora or béret, and a scarf.
5) Buy a French striped sailor top with a bateau neck. Great with jeans, white pants, and ballerina flats.
6) Always have a “little black dress” handy in your closet.
7) Be a pearl person. Pearls never go out of style.
8) Flea Market vintage costume jewelry pieces are always fun to hunt for when you travel, and become special unique accessories with a story.
French Press Waiting for Some French Roast
Food & Drink
9) Drink rich, dark French Roast coffee from a vintage “café au lait bowl” or French porcelain mug, made in a French press each morning.
10) Seek out and frequent your favorite local bakery for buttery croissants, crusty country bread, and fresh crusty baguettes. To name a few I like, Wayfarer Bread in La Jolla, Prager Brothers in Carlsbad and Encinitas, and Isabelle Briens French Pastry Cafe in Encinitas.
11) Drink fabulous champagne, and don’t save it for special celebrations and occasions. Chateau Sonoma is now offering Chateau Sonoma Champagne Club. Check it out!
12) Indulge in the Apéro hour, a little something to drink, a little something to snack on. Typically, nuts, olives, and savory crackers. A time in the day to relax with friends and loved ones, awaken your appetite and a prelude to dinner.
13) Use real French dijon mustard such as Maille or Edmond Fallon.
14) Substitute crème fraîche for sour cream. Crème fraîche is thicker, richer and less tangy than sour cream. It won’t curdle if you boil it, so it is great to use in soups and sauces.
15) In your recipe arsenal, keep your “tried and true” favorite Gougères, Roast Chicken, Steak au Poivre, Tart, and Vinaigrette recipes. Cook’s Atelier Gougère Recipe
The Cook’s Atelier, Kendall Smith Franchini, Serving Gougères
16) Cook with a few select copper pots. If you like them, expand your selection.
17) Use French sea salt or what is called fleur de sel in your cooking. It is a natural, pure salt, with no additives that is hand-harvested from the surface of the sea. Try Le Paludier Guérande Fleur de Sel from Brittany or Le Saunier de Camargue from Provence.
Cooking With Copper Pots is a Beautiful Thing
18) Grow ‘Provence’ Lavender, the best culinary lavender because of its low camphor level, with a nice floral scent and gentle lavender flavor. Keep “Provence Lavender Sugar” in your pantry to use in your baked goods. Simply add 1 Tablespoon dried culinary lavender buds, finely ground in a spice grinder, to 2 cups sugar. Transfer to a jar and cover tightly. Allow at least 3 days time before using.
Ready to Dry ‘Provence’ Lavender
19) Similar to finishing your ensemble to complete your look, use garnish to finish and complete your food dish for visual appearance and culinary appeal. If it looks great, it is going to taste great. Be imaginative, choose garnishes like lemon zest, toasted nuts, cracked pepper, spices, and edible flowers.
20) Choose quality over quantity, especially when it comes to really good dark chocolate and cheese. A fabulous cheese selection at Fromagerie by Franck is offered at the Saturday Little Italy and Vista Farmers Markets, and Sunday Rancho Santa Fe Farmers Market. Think Black Truffle Gouda, Comté, and authentic Camembert from Normandy.
Fabulous Fromagerie by Franck, at Sunday Rancho Santa Fe Farmers Market
Mood
21) Spritz lavender linen water on your clean pillow cases, roll up them up and rest them before ironing. Store and fold bedding with dried lavender sachets, either hand made or purchased. Your bedding will be left with a faint fragrance of lavender, and ideal for promoting a relaxing night of sleep. Look for relaxing pillow mist at L’Occitane or sometimes it can be found at HomeGoods.
22) Add essential Lavender Oil to your bubble bath. I pick up essential Lavender Oil at the markets in France. You can find lavender products online and at two local lavender farms, Purple Rain Lavender Farm in Fallbrook, California, and Keys Creek Lavender Farm in Valley Center, California.
23) Create a French library with cookbooks, décor style, lifestyle, novels, and travel. Subscribe to My French Country Home bimonthly magazine and/or MFCH quarterly gift box. Authentic France delivered to your home in the form of a beautiful magazine, or carefully curated French gifts for you and your home.
My French Country Home magazine
24) Program your music to French stations, for example on Pandora, with French Cooking Music Radio, Carla Bruni Radio, The French Cafe Radio, Maurice Chevalier Radio, Pink Martini Radio, Edith Piaf Radio, News in Slow French Podcast, etc.
25) Explore MHZ channel on Apple TV that features many subtitled French films and mini-series, as well as other European media.
This is a short list. I could recommend many, many more. Try adding some Frenchness into your daily life and enjoy Joie de Vivre!
Bon Appétit et Bon Weekend….Bonnie
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