As we begin the month of December in this crazy pandemic year, and amidst the holiday season, my gift to you is “find your own little” or put another way, “find your own simple.” It is the greatest gift I can whole-heartedly give you, one of the best gifts you can easily give yourself which might dramatically change your life, and if you let it— it can last a lifetime! Find your own simple, it is around you each and every day. You just need to recognize it, and be mindful of it.

In the October 2020 Victoria magazine issue, there is a beautiful article on the legendary illustrator N.C. Wyeth’s home in Pennsylvania’s breathtaking wooded Brandywine River Valley. Actually, it is an article on both N.C. and his also famous artist son, Andrew, Wyeth—their homes, studios, and neighboring Kuerner farm. Today these properties have been thankfully restored and are now protected as part of the Brandywine River Museum of Art complex through the concerted efforts of the Brandywine Conservancy. Reading the article and enjoying the photos, it is quite clear that N.C. and his family enjoyed simplicity above all, and a life of comfort over pretense. His quote really resonated with me, and is powerful.

A couple of months ago I posted Follow the French, writing about the same message. I think the French have the ability to live this way naturally, because it is ingrained in their culture, and their DNA. It is such an important gift and message, and interesting how it can be said in so many ways with the same meaning.

One of the silver linings in this unusual pandemic year, is the fact that we all have experienced a unique social and cultural filtering which has trickled down and changed our everyday lives. We started baking more, got into organizing and enhancing our homes, spending more time with our families, traveling less, and appreciating the “little” things in our everyday lives that bring us joy.

Finding the “little” in your life is your journey, and honestly, maybe some of you have already found it. What is my “little” is not the same as your “little,” but I think you will begin to recognize your “littles.” Making a difference in someone’s life, starting from a small loving gesture becomes great. Tapping into an “ah ha” moment and building from there can be greatness. Appreciating nature and wildlife in our own garden can morph into a beautiful and caring community.

Remember Sarah Ban Breathnach’s wildly popular book, Simple Abundance from 1995, and now there is an updated version. It might still be on your bookshelf. Her book and message is full of “little” suggestions to get reacquainted with, and she suggests “Joyful Simplicities” for each month to carry you throughout the year.

This is my gift to you, start with the “little” things that bring you joy, and watch what happens.